bt wat i knw its painful...!
The distance wid d person v lv most or its a feeling of unwantedness ,makes us lonely i dont knw
bt its really hurts...
listening d sad songs or watching d tragic movie or reading a tragic novel, gives a little comfort
I think its d feeling that sm1 z also dere who is alone lyk us,
dat gives us company, gives a feeling of comfort.
we do fb updates, we do chatting ... its divert our mind fr smtimes n v virtually feel dat sm1 z dere to listen us .. .
we feel inside a ltl bit happy wenever v read a status f loneliness its nt bcz dat d person who updates, is not our anti or enemy bt the reason behind this, is the feel f others loneliness defntly decrese our loneliness bcz v always see a chance to share ours loneliness.
lyf goes on continuoesly n v feel evrything z quite gud v do our regular work very comfrtably with a consious n subconsious mind
n all d tym v pretend uncosiously, dis is d only bare truth..
v have 2 do it fr others n fr our self respect or may be for ego bt d xactly wat happens aftr pretending the whole day lyk "evrything z fine(whereas v knw its nt fine)" it gives d feeling of more loneliness.
I think d right thing is nt pretending to avoid d harsh feeling f lonelinss
but 2 share , u can share with air,water,trees n all d nature u can share with ur pc,mobile,paper n all d e-machines even without thinking for a moment
but if u are sharing with a person the most imp thing z that he/she shud have atleast these 3 qualities:
1. trustworthy
2. understanding with u n d situation
3. respect 2 ur feelings
Otherwise u vl feel a storm of bad feelings which will generate a never ending alonness in u.
So sharing is the only solution i got till now, to beat d loneliness
n 1 more thing i want 2 say which is very imp
to be happy inside,keep in touch with urself....!
early december
Wipro amphetheatre.../vivek/
